For My Sisters: 7 Relationship Tips

Thomas Long has taken on the arduous task of talking women through
the highs and lows of relationship drama. Here are some excerpts
from the seven categories he chooses.

The Bag Lady Syndrome: Long strongly suggests that women take time
to be alone after ending a bad relationship so they can adequately
heal. Once they’ve taken the time to throw off the emotional baggage
of the past and are healthy again they are ready to re-enter the
dating scene.

A Vision Shared: His message is to avoid getting stuck in
relationships with individuals who are not on the same career path
or who are still trying to find their way. Don’t be a career oriented
woman with a mate who is either “in-between” jobs or merely content
to live off his woman’s generosity.

Social Compatibility: Avoid the jigsaw puzzle syndrome; trying to
arrange fragmented pieces into a perfect fit. If you have a man in
your life who does not share some similar interests with you, the
chemistry will probably not last.

Role Definition/Shared Responsibilities: Set some boundaries; With
no boundaries being set at the beginning of the relationship, neither
party is clear as to what constitutes non-acceptable behavior.

Spending Quality Time Together: First, it’s important that each party
retain their individuality. So both the man and the woman should have
a set amount of personal time away from their partner to keep harmony
between them. But they should amorously use the time when they are
together as an opportunity to exploit the time they were apart.

Keep The Flames Burning: It is important to have a good sex life
with your partner, good sex eases tension. Sexual chemistry between
partners is one of those mediums of communication that needs to be
maintained and constantly improved upon if the relationship is to
last.

Game Recognize Game: An unscrupulous man usually sends a lot of
warning signs, often unconsciously, which tell you if his agenda is
not sincere. The problem is many women choose not to see the truth
even when it stares them in the face.

With these seven relationship tips Mr. Long shares some practical
and insightful advice. He does not propose to voice what women
feel; however, he does base his views on a man’s interpretation of
how he sees women. Arguably, a couple of his tips do reek of maleness,
but that’s not a bad thing. This book is well worth reading, and it
does bring home some unpopular truths.

Reviewed by aNN
of The RAWSISTAZ Reviewers
Rating: 4 / 5
For My Sisters: 7 Relationship Tips

I enjoyed this book! For one, it is easy reading and straight to the point – no beating around the bush and the information provided is realistic and useful. I’m appreciative that the book is from a man’s point of view and some of his suggestions and advice is based on his own experiences which made me cherish the reading even more.
Rating: 5 / 5
For My Sisters: 7 Relationship Tips